169. Bounce Back, Stay Strong: Lessons from Simon Sinek for Financial Advisors

 

 

I know the struggles of being an insurance agent because I’ve lived them. When I first entered the business, I worked with passion and urgency. Within my first five months, I achieved something many agents dream of; I qualified for the MDRT (Thank you BM @susanlee of @sunlife for your guidance). I thought I had it all figured out.

And then… nothing.

The momentum stopped. The sales dried up. I was still working hard, but I couldn’t understand why my results weren’t the same. I questioned myself: Was my success just luck? Was I really cut out for this business?

To find answers, I turned to books. Simon Sinek’s Start with Why and Cal Newport’s Deep Work became my companions. They taught me that success isn’t only about the what (selling insurance) or the how (presentations, calls, prospecting). The real foundation is the why, the deeper purpose that fuels us when the road gets tough.

Reconnect With Your Why

At my lowest point, I realized I had been chasing numbers instead of purpose. Our job isn’t just about policies, it’s about protecting families, securing dreams, and giving clients peace of mind. When I remembered that, the fire returned. Every time you feel stuck, go back to your why. It’s the most powerful motivator.

Turn Rejection into Redirection

I used to take rejection personally. But Sinek reminded me: people don’t buy what you do, they buy why you do it. If a client says “no,” it doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it just means your message didn’t connect. Each rejection is a chance to refine your story, to better communicate the purpose behind your work.

 

Surround Yourself with Believers

When I hit a slump, I isolated myself. That was a mistake. The truth is, we need to be around people who believe what we believe, mentors, teammates, even clients who inspire us. They remind us of our why when we forget it ourselves. Choose your circle wisely.

Keep Learning and Adapting

When results slow down, the temptation is to double down on the same tactics. But growth comes from learning new approaches. For me, it meant studying deep work principles, focusing without distraction, improving my prospecting, and refining my storytelling. Keep sharpening your skills, always anchored to your why.

Celebrate Small Wins

In the beginning, I only celebrated big milestones like MDRT. But along the way, I learned to value small wins, setting an appointment, getting a callback, helping even one family. These small victories are proof that you’re moving forward, and they fuel the confidence to keep going.

This business is tough. I know what it’s like to rise quickly, stumble unexpectedly, and wonder if you’ll ever find your footing again. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: the key to bouncing back is always going back to your why.

So, if you’re in a slump, don’t just push harder. Dig deeper. Reconnect with your why. That’s where your strength and your comeback begin.

All the best my friends!!

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